{"id":105,"date":"2011-11-21T15:22:14","date_gmt":"2011-11-21T15:22:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lamarhuntjrcounseling.com\/blog\/?p=105"},"modified":"2012-09-06T17:10:30","modified_gmt":"2012-09-06T17:10:30","slug":"the-exiled-or-disconnected-person","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lamarhuntjrcounseling.com\/blog\/2011\/11\/21\/the-exiled-or-disconnected-person\/","title":{"rendered":"The Exiled or Disconnected Person"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The Exiled or Disconnected person is robed in self-sufficiency and does not feel the need for acceptance or approval from others. They may in fact have little desire to connect at all. They believe they must exclusively count on themselves to provide psychological and emotional support. Typically the exiled\u00a0or disconnected person cuts themselves off from people and looks inward to a world of fantasy to find pleasure and comfort. To those around this person it may appear that they look cold, distant, and aloof. The exiled person has learned to fend for oneself and Latchkey kids\u00a0are prone to develop this relational style. For the exiled person,\u00a0depending on others for emotional support provokes anxiety, which leads to profound feelings of vulnerability.\u00a0The exiled person derives little if any pleasure from interacting with others and can come across as having a sense of superiority. This is not like the puffed-up superiority of the narcissist. The exiled person\u00a0barricades themselves from their emotions. Life appears bland and colorless. It is calm, cool, and without much intensity. Lastly for the\u00a0exiled person there is a longing for connectedness but the fear of being overwhelmed and controlled by others blunts this desire.\u00a0 If you are in need of counseling or know someone who does, please contact Lamar Hunt Jr. or see his website at <a href=\"http:\/\/lamarhuntjrcounseling.com\/\">http:\/\/lamarhuntjrcounseling.com\/<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The Exiled or Disconnected person is robed in self-sufficiency and does not feel the need for acceptance or approval from others. They may in fact have little desire to connect at all. They believe they must exclusively count on themselves &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/lamarhuntjrcounseling.com\/blog\/2011\/11\/21\/the-exiled-or-disconnected-person\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[30],"tags":[20,10,11,52,51,40,41,28,9,6,7,8,27,29,42],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lamarhuntjrcounseling.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/105"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lamarhuntjrcounseling.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lamarhuntjrcounseling.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lamarhuntjrcounseling.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lamarhuntjrcounseling.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=105"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/lamarhuntjrcounseling.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/105\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":400,"href":"https:\/\/lamarhuntjrcounseling.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/105\/revisions\/400"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lamarhuntjrcounseling.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=105"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lamarhuntjrcounseling.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=105"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lamarhuntjrcounseling.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=105"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}