Marriage has the power to sanctify (make holy) each person in the marriage. A couple cannot love each other just based on their own power and initiative. There must be\u00a0a vital and shared prayer life because faith changes everything. There is a heroic generosity in\u00a0working for the good of the other person.<\/p>\n
As a starting point both individuals in a marriage need to develop their Christian identity. This means a set of values and asking yourself the question of, “Would you live out\u00a0those values if a camera were on you?” Values are a reflection of your choices and actions. It is a clear sense of your mission.<\/p>\n
Couples should start with a “Marital Mission Statement” and asked\u00a0themselves who they are in\u00a0relationships with people. If you don’t know what qualities to work on look at Galatians Chapter 5, verses 22-23. Typically the qualities of\u00a0patience, gentleness, generosity, and self-control need\u00a0to be worked on marital relationships.<\/p>\n
Next, get practical and write it down. If\u00a0one partner has difficulty with their temper (i.e. patience) then the other partner needs to know how to respond to outbursts of temper. Make sure it is about the quality or virtue you each want to work and remember you are there to help be a source of grace for your partner’s emotional and spiritual growth. Attacks on a partner’s character have no place in a marriage. If you or someone you know may need counseling, please contact Lamar Hunt Jr. or see his website at http:\/\/lamarhuntjrcounseling.com\/<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Marriage has the power to sanctify (make holy) each person in the marriage. A couple cannot love each other just based on their own power and initiative. There must be\u00a0a vital and shared prayer life because faith changes everything. There … Continue reading