{"id":85,"date":"2011-10-26T14:29:55","date_gmt":"2011-10-26T14:29:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lamarhuntjrcounseling.com\/blog\/?p=85"},"modified":"2012-09-06T17:10:31","modified_gmt":"2012-09-06T17:10:31","slug":"priorities-and-demands","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lamarhuntjrcounseling.com\/blog\/2011\/10\/26\/priorities-and-demands\/","title":{"rendered":"Priorities and Demands"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>How often have you been in a situation where later you wished you had said something differently? Maybe you regretted what you said or you just didn&#8217;t speak up when you should have. Relationships that are\u00a0neglected can create an\u00a0enormous amount of\u00a0stress. This stress\u00a0then increases emotional vulnerability and\u00a0the relationship can quickly go downhill from there.\u00a0The longer a relationship remains neglected, the harder\u00a0it is\u00a0to repair. The ability to repair a &#8220;rupture&#8221; in a relationship is of primary importance. The key is to\u00a0balance priorities versus demands in life and relationships. Priorities are\u00a0those things important to you, things you want to do or get done. Demands are those things other people want you to do, things other people want done. Most troubles with priorities and demands are due to your own priorities conflicting with other people&#8217;s priorities. Thus you need good interpersonal skills to maintain your\u00a0own priorities and\/or negotiate compromises.\u00a0If you are in need of some counseling or know someone who does, please contact Lamar Hunt Jr. or see his website at <a href=\"http:\/\/lamarhuntjrcounseling.com\/\">http:\/\/lamarhuntjrcounseling.com\/<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>How often have you been in a situation where later you wished you had said something differently? Maybe you regretted what you said or you just didn&#8217;t speak up when you should have. Relationships that are\u00a0neglected can create an\u00a0enormous amount &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/lamarhuntjrcounseling.com\/blog\/2011\/10\/26\/priorities-and-demands\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[30],"tags":[20,10,11,40,41,28,9,6,7,8,38,39,12,37,27,29,36,42],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lamarhuntjrcounseling.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/85"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lamarhuntjrcounseling.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lamarhuntjrcounseling.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lamarhuntjrcounseling.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lamarhuntjrcounseling.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=85"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/lamarhuntjrcounseling.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/85\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":406,"href":"https:\/\/lamarhuntjrcounseling.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/85\/revisions\/406"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lamarhuntjrcounseling.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=85"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lamarhuntjrcounseling.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=85"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lamarhuntjrcounseling.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=85"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}