{"id":96,"date":"2011-11-10T22:23:07","date_gmt":"2011-11-10T22:23:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lamarhuntjrcounseling.com\/blog\/?p=96"},"modified":"2012-09-06T17:10:30","modified_gmt":"2012-09-06T17:10:30","slug":"avoidant-people-part-one","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lamarhuntjrcounseling.com\/blog\/2011\/11\/10\/avoidant-people-part-one\/","title":{"rendered":"Avoidant People &#8211; Part One"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>People who have an avoidant attachment style find it difficult to listen sensitively to the thoughts and feelings of others. They also don&#8217;t like to disclose their private thoughts and experiences\u00a0and they are turned off by tenderness and touch. Why is this? \u00a0Because growing up they felt abandoned and rejected.\u00a0 They learned to hide uncomfortable thoughts and feelings and distance themselves from their feelings. This includes the desire for emotional closeness. Avoidant persons can seem tough and hard on the outside and even develop a &#8220;protected self.&#8221; \u00a0The closer one tries to get to an avoidant person the more defensive they may become.\u00a0 If you are in need of counseling or know someone who does, please contact Lamar Hunt Jr. or see his website at <a href=\"http:\/\/lamarhuntjrcounseling.com\/\">http:\/\/lamarhuntjrcounseling.com\/<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>People who have an avoidant attachment style find it difficult to listen sensitively to the thoughts and feelings of others. They also don&#8217;t like to disclose their private thoughts and experiences\u00a0and they are turned off by tenderness and touch. Why &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/lamarhuntjrcounseling.com\/blog\/2011\/11\/10\/avoidant-people-part-one\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[30],"tags":[48,10,11,40,41,28,9,6,7,8,27,29,42],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lamarhuntjrcounseling.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/96"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lamarhuntjrcounseling.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lamarhuntjrcounseling.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lamarhuntjrcounseling.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lamarhuntjrcounseling.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=96"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/lamarhuntjrcounseling.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/96\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":403,"href":"https:\/\/lamarhuntjrcounseling.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/96\/revisions\/403"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lamarhuntjrcounseling.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=96"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lamarhuntjrcounseling.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=96"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lamarhuntjrcounseling.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=96"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}